Chimina and Riggs (the oldest daughter and son), Saturday’s adventrue on the bike to the park was so special and sweet. Who would have thought that a simple trip to the park would result in trying not to be attacked by a mama bird who had built the nest for her egg on the woodchips of the park?! The fear in your faces when she ruffled her feathers and chirped loudly at us was sweet and funny. But you did well staying away from her. And the fact that you did not want to leave her in fear of something happening to the egg she was protecting was precious. Even more, your warning the sister and brother who were riding their bikes on the street near the park about the bird, shows that your daddy and I are doing a wonderful job raising you.
Then we went to the wedding you didn’t want to attend. I was worried, but you all behaved well, and when the cake reception began you discovered the fun you were able to have between the yummy cupcakes, the bubbles, and playing with the cousins you do not see very often. Two hours later, the “is it almost over?” turned into your not even complaining about going but being sad to leave. And the fact that you were able to spend time with your grandparents who live out-of-state was great! I especially loved watching you, Riggs, as you finally perfected blowing bubbles.
Hubby, our date was wonderful. I love how we can go from a romantic dinner together just the two of us, to watching a film that challenges, inspires and brings about pride in our faith, and for you, pride in your ancestors. Romance, deep discussions, silly behavior, praying together and everything in between, that is why we are best friends!
Sunday, the Machine Shed called our name and we met up with my birthdad and his girlfriend. It is so nice how being reunited has finally gone from stress and expectation that could not be articulated nor even figured out to an easy relationship that is comfortable and flows smoothly. Yes, mis amores, I know that adding this “newer” grandparent into your life can be a little difficult to understand, as it’s difficult for me to understand at times – has been my whole life, you have been able to warm up nicely and are beginning to see this grandfather as another person who loves you. The best part of this Machine Shed experience, watching you all climb over the tractor outside and playing with it and taking pictures on it with this grandfather. And you even wanted to hug him goodbye. Yes, mis amores, you have been given some lemons indirectly as a result of lemons I was given, but together, we have made lemonade. You are going through all of these “families” with less apprehension. I hope that daddy’s and my love is helping you through all of this.
And finally, the last joy or wonder of the weekend, your tia’s new house. I have not been able to ask you about all that you pretended and imagined when playing in the rooms and closests of the house. But, based on your smiles, laughter, and running, what you were imagining must have been exciting. No amount of television or video games could ever replace the magic of play, and tia’s house sure provides a great area to use your creativity! I have a feeling you will be requesting to go to your tia’s a LOT!
Thank you, mis amores, for all of the beauty you showed me this weekend. I really had fun!
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